Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Thoughts of Me & You

I'm your little honey bun
I love calling you hun
Shaking you off can never be done
Everyday with you is a whole lot of fun
Our vibes so in tune
Glad to be with you
Its the little things we do
That got me weak for you
Sitting home cuddle up watching Scooby Doo
Making our midnight runs just to get some food
Pulling up in drive thru's acting like some fools
The guy at the window flirts, you let him know I'm with you
Even at your worst, I'm always there for you
Forever will be your lady, even in my worst mood
You'll always be that dude
Cause baby your the true



©2009


Tuesday, June 23, 2009

Ladies, Cut the Drama...

Ladies, do you know what kills me sometimes when we're in so called relationships with dudes. Its how we get so attached to them so fast. (I'm only saying we cause I'm a female too) We basically already know from jump street what the relationship is about. Whether its going to be just a fling or a cut buddy. Yeah, sometimes guys lead us on but we already know what time it is. Its our emotions getting played and we're only getting played if we allow ourselves to get play. Lets cut the drama out.

All the "I can't believe he's doing this to me" or "I can't believe he's with her" or still with her. "Why doesn't he call me?" Your basically causing yourself to look dumb. You are also creating feelings for someone who probably doesn't feel the same way. Just because you're having or had sex with a person doesn't automatically put claim on that person. Or even means that your a couple.

What kills me even more that's crazy? Its when females try to confront the other female. Its almost never the other females fault. Its either your own for creating the attached feelings and allowing it to happen or the guy's fault if indeed you are in a relationship with him. Let's be realistic about it ladies, whose choice was it? He wasn't forced. So, then I would say he was not loyal to you, totally disrespectful, untrustworthy, etc etc.

Keep this in mind ladies. Don't be a puppet. Be the puppeteer. Control the situation. It will eliminate a bunch of the unnecessary stress, drama, and confusion. If you don't know, get the relationship clarified so that you both know. This reaction can go both ways. Its just more common for women to react this way. I would just love to see more women having more control of the men's kryptonite.

Friday, June 19, 2009

Sweet Mist


Caressing my body softly

Our skins touching barely
Slaving me, teasing me
I can't believe this is happening.

Trying to fight off this temptation
I feel as if there are no limitations
For tonight, don't let me fool you
I only want to do you.






Caught in the moment, I cannot leave

For you have what my body needs
This seductive mediation has my body reacting with no hesitation
To have your strong warmth please me with a sensual visitation





To satisfy the needs below the waist
This desire for passion fell like sweet mist
Wanting to clinch this moment like a fist
Let's just end tonight with a kiss.











©2009

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Mean Mugging kp by Da Creative Genius




My mean muggin' face was remixed and drawn by a friend who goes by the name of "Da Creative Genius" aka Dan The Man (DTM).

"Mean mugging is my favorite past time", say DTM.


"The Man" he is and indeed, a "creative genius". DTM draws free hand, tattoos, and is one of the sickest graphic artist/designer I know. I admire his work because you can tell he puts time into it and its original. Dan takes the images from his mind and draws out these vivid & detailed images, creating masterpieces. It doesn't matter if its on paper or by computer. He's mastered his craft in all areas.

After reading a little biography about him, it stated that he has received "praise and trouble" from his skill. "Praise from the artist community and trouble from teachers and employers who thought DTM drew too much."

Sometimes its better to follow your heart cause you never know where your talents can led you. In this case, DTM has decided to follow his desire to draw. Now he creates and sells his designs and drawings for print and the web.

To find more on Da Creative Genius's, his work and contact info, check out one of his websites:

Da Creative Genius

DENOMINATORGRAPHICS.COM

Mano-A-Mano Art Show

Tattoo Partys

Visual Art Werks


"Everybody can draw, but can anyone create? Can anyone imagine and bring forth a fruit out of a pen and a piece of paper?" - DTM

Saturday, May 2, 2009

The Clock is Ticking

Throughout LIFE you try to overcome every obstacle that comes your way...

At this time in my LIFE, I have done a lot of soul searching and realized that LIFE is too short to try and change someone. I had to learn that the hard way and now I have a friend to teach me to just SIMPLY be ME...


Living LIFE to the fullest and still maintaining to find what it is that GOD has in store for me. Living one day at a time and controlling my every actions. I am RE-BORN.

Doing me is all I can do for my kids. You can't help the next person get by if you can't help yourself. I had to learn that too. Giving someone your all and getting nothing in return is a waste of TIME and TIME is all you have in LIFE.

_and at some points TIME is very limited_

People have come and gone in my LIFE. For the WORSE and for the GOOD. LIFE is all an learning experience. So, I keep a positive mind in everything I do and I think that's what keeps me sane.

But I have learned and realized, throughout these past years, that your FRIENDS and FAMILY can make and break you. They can also be the cause of all your pain and stress.

So, just going through the motions may not be the answer.

The clock is TICKING and it never stops.

So what is it that you're going to do?





©2007

karma


What is the thrill of destroying the happiness of someones life???

Dumbfounded as I am to this question, it kills me to see someones enviousness get the best of them.

Jealously is the fuel that drives someones mind to motivate the passengers to hate as much as the driver. Or the fuel to drive evilness to perform its UN-natural work of harm. As insane, as the driver's mind, my mind wonders.

Why? & How?

Can someone reveal their jealous soul and let evilness lurk inside to create a power of energy called HATE.

Evil for Evil

Because you can't stand to see the next person have, want, or just being in the state of happiness or being humble with ones self. Because you want to have, want to give or want to want...

You try to destroy it with all the force of human nature to watch the passengers or the next driver to crash upon mercy. As collective as they are, their spirit of kindness unwilling & unknowingly fights back.

Karma as they say is a BITCH!!! & Guess what???


SHE is... ^_^



©2007

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Make a Stand

Throughout live we go through different extreme circumstances that causes us to re-think and re-evaluate. Life can only be as hard as you make it to be. Stop trying so hard to please the next person and be true to yourself. Once your caught into every ones gossip, you lose that special nature within yourself that defines who you are.

Sometimes in life, its better to follow what's in your heart and not what's in someone else's. Just because its said to be of your best interest. Its not always the case. At the end of any given day, its only you who has to live with that decision. You are the seeker that has to seek what fits for you.


Life is all about choices and its up to you make the right one. There's a difference when making choices that seems right at moment. What about in the long run? Will that have still been the right decision or path?

Never fear how others may judge you. Its you who has to be happy. Therefore, no else should matter. There's nothing better than a stress free conscious. You just never know what a persons motive may have been.

Voice your opinion. Stand up for yourself and stand your ground. Never let anyone talk down upon you. How can anyone respect you if don't?

You have 2 ears for a reason. To listen. So, be aware of whats being said around you? Create a change.

All in all, don't make life harder than it has to be. Focus on your well-being. Observe your surroundings and listen. You never know what maybe useful...

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Public Image: Step 1: Your Swag

When building your Public Image: Step 1: Your Swagger

In this discussion, you will learn and have an idea of how to develop your personal image. Image is everything and its really shows how we carry ourselves. In the industry, this can be very important. Presentation is the key as well as within ourselves. So, its important when you step out your house, you look presentable. If you don’t care, why should anyone else.

So, let’s first begin with your swag. The way you walk says a lot. If you strut like a model with pride and confidence, you will grab attention. A model’s walk is demanding and if done right, it brings out that sexiness in you. So, if you slouch when you walk, lets tighten up that spine, pull them shoulders back, hold up that chin, bring them legs together, and strut. =]

Good Posture. You don’t want to be a conference or out on a date slouching all over the table. So, if you are like me, you probably sit in a office chair all day. Probably one that adjusts. If so, even better. Use the chairs features to align your body. When sitting, just imagine a imaginary vertical line. You want your back straight and everything from your head to your hips to align to the back of your ears. When your not forcing it, less strain provides good breathing. Your feet should be evenly balanced on the floor. If not, use a foot stool. Also, your thighs should not be pressed against the edge of the chair that stops circulation.

Note: Some think its cute but avoid crossing legs (crossed down low by the ankles is fine). Avoid slouching over and tilting too. Anything that’s not evenly balanced avoid.

Now, after doing some research for a demanding walk, I found some helpful tips from Kimora’s book, “Fabulosity”. So, keep these in mind the next time your out and about:

“1) Rather than planting each foot in line with its hip two parallel lines, bring both feet closer to one single center line when you step. It gives a sexy swing and an impression of length to your legs. Stretch your steps out a little, too, because longer strides give a beautiful flow to your movement.”

2) Keep your chin up and your neck long; if you’re out there totally on your own, the gaze should be level and softly focused at a spot straight as you move. This suggests assurance and pride--you know where you’re going, and you know how to get there.

3) Don’t over-swing your arms! It destroys the illusion of softness and makes you look like you’re a military cadet. Notice if one are swings higher than the other: That’s a common model problem.

4) Keep your fingers relaxed. It’s the smallest detail in modeling work--both in studio photos and on the runway--and people often overlook it because they’re busy concentrating on other stuff. But tight, clenched fists or ramrod straight fingers both signify one thing: fear! Let your fingers gently curl and brush your legs as they move.

5) Project your personality. Once in a crowd, try to engage at least a few onlookers with your eyes and a smile (though don’t nod to everybody). It triggers an energy around you and makes sure you come across as a hot momma that everyone wants to meet, not chilly ice princess.

6) When stepping out for the night or day, flair depends on how you feel. Its got to start from the inside out, and more than anything, you’ve got to feel good about what you’re wearing. Give yourself some good time to prepare, so you don’t feel rushed and stressed. Last-minute wardrobe crises will completely blow your cool. And practice walking in those four-inch heels before your big night out--give them a test drive on carpet, wood, and asphalt!

Let’s practice these habits to stop our bad ones.

*Remember your appearance is a form of self-promotion.